The Root Centre: Stop Catching Other People’s Stress
- Lucy Ellis

- Aug 25
- 2 min read

Have you ever walked into a room and instantly felt heavy, tight in the chest, or rushed… even when nothing in your own life has changed? That’s the Root Centre at play.
In Human Design, the Root is the pressure centre. It’s the energy that pushes us to move, do, achieve, survive, and respond to life. When it’s defined, this pressure can be consistent and reliable, the person often feels grounded, steady, and solid in how they respond to stress. But when it’s undefined (or open), the Root can feel like a sponge for everyone else’s stress.
Other people’s stress really can be catchy. It’s like being around someone who is wound tight and running late, suddenly, your own body speeds up, your heart races, and you’re moving faster even though you weren’t under pressure five minutes ago.
This is your sensitivity to other peoples pressure.
The undefined Root has a gift: it can deeply sense the stress and adrenaline of others. But without awareness, that gift can feel like a curse. It leads to burnout, anxiety, exhaustion, and living in a constant loop of “do, do, do” to keep up with someone else’s pace.
The medicine here is learning how to choose what you absorb. Because you don’t have to take in all that stress.
With practice, you can notice:
When the rush isn’t yours. Pause and ask, “Am I actually under pressure right now, or am I borrowing it?”
How your body reacts. The moment you feel sped up, use your breath to slow down, ground your feet, and reconnect to your own rhythm.
Where you thrive. Stress can be contagious, but so can calm. Surround yourself with people who feel steady, spacious, and intentional and notice how your own nervous system responds.
Learning to stop absorbing every ripple of stress doesn’t mean shutting people out. It means standing in your own energy and letting others carry what is theirs. When you do this, you stop running life on other people’s timelines and start living from your own.
It’s healthier. It’s freer. And it’s the way back to your heart.
💛 If you’d like to go deeper:
Listen to my full podcast episode on the Root Centre here for Apple or Spotify
Try my Root Centre Hypnosis Audio designed to help you release pressure, ground yourself, and reclaim your natural rhythm: https://tr.ee/a0OMvKSVN9



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